How to overcome my mistake.

      We are all humans and we are all bound to make mistakes. But, what do you think? Are you always making the same mistake over and over again?Or are you the type that makes mistake and learn from it an never to do it again?
      Well,if that first question is indirectly pointing to you then you should seat down and think.Just imagine yourself standing in a very long cue in a bank hoping the ATM will pay you but when it gets to your turn,the ATM stopped working. You left there and move to about three or four banks and the same thing happened.What will be your reaction to it. I'm very sure you'll be extraordinary angry and disappointed. That's how it is when you keep repeating a mistake.

                  Now stop thinking.

        Try to relate this scenario to your repeatable mistakes. Put your self in the shoes of the person receiving the mistake, it won't be easy right?

          Reasons to admit your mistake.

1. It's the right thing to do.
2. People are more likely to forgive those that admit their mistake.
3. It will make you more responsible and trustworthy.
     How can you overcome your mistake? While,dwelling on past mistake are like staring in the rearview mirror while driving a car. Well,if you made a mistake in the past and you notice you are about to repeat it, just try to imagine the results of your action and mend your ways. If you continue preventing them before it happens then you'll likely be able to overcome them.

30 businesses you can start with little capital.

Why not make some money after reading this?

   After a thorough overview of our economy, I decided to come up with this list of 30 businesses you can start with little capital which I believe will favour those that wants a positive change in their financial status.
   Well,we all know that poverty is not by chance but by choice.Nobody is born to be poor.


     Shame is one of the causes of poverty. When you start to do small work that will generate you income, some questions will be running your mind. Questions like: What will my friends, family members and loved one's say? Believe me,if you let this kind of mentality run your mind then your chance of making it in life is narrow.
      The best thing you can do to make things better is to SHUN SHAME AND BE RICH. Below are some of the top business you can start with just little capital. Take a look.
  1. Ice cream/yoghurt production.
  2. Production of insecticides.
  3. Small export and import services.
  4. Newspaper vendor.
  5. GSM repairs.
  6. Book writing and selling of books.
  7. Mini restaurant.
  8. Printing and selling of greeting cards.
  9. Riding of motor bike services(Okada).
  10. Frying of yam and beans cake in bus stops.
  11. Make-up business.
  12. Video or computer game business.
  13. Stand-up comedy and MC at weddings and other social gatherings.
  14. Event planning business.
  15. Website designing services.
  16. Soap production.
  17. Private teaching or tutorial centers.
  18. Fish farming.
  19. Laundry services.
  20. Poultry farming.
  21. Dog breeding and training.
  22. Fitness centre.
  23. Travelling agency.
  24. Interior designing business.
  25. Internet marketing business.
  26. Advertising agency.
  27. Computer maintainace services.
  28. Pig farming.
  29. Herbs and root.
  30. Branding of shirts And Jerseys.

All The Things New Fathers Need To Know About Post Partum Depression

Postpartum depression is one thing that a lot of new fathers dismiss when their wives exhibit the signs and it is important to give it the attention it deserves.

Postpartum depression is a serious problem that can affect new mothers. But if you’re a new father, you might not actually suspect that your partner could be at risk m or that you could be at risk, too.

It is important that new parents are aware of the symptoms. That way, if you or your partner exhibit any of them, you’ll both be equipped to get the help your family needs. Here’s what you should know.

Postpartum depression is a serious issue

It’s normal for a parent to feel a little bit sad in the days or weeks after giving birth. For a new mother,that’s usually a result of the quick and rapid hormonal changes going on in her body.

Surprisingly, it also happens in fathers too, despite the fact that experts aren’t sure why. Though, some have attributed it to evidence that testosterone levels in men drop during the postpartum period, which can be linked to depression.

While these hormonal shifts can be minor and temporary, they can also trigger serious mood changes like extreme sadness, anxiety, or feelings of hopelessness. It can even be exacerbated further with the sleep deprivation that comes with new parenthood.

If you or your partner seems irritable, withdrawn, or moody for longer than two weeks at a time, that could be a sign of PPD and you shouldn’t be dismissed or ignored.

Warning signs are difficult to identify

The stigma associated with PPD means that it’s often difficult for people to understand what it actually seems like. That’s why it’s important to familiarize yourself with what the symptoms of PPD actually are, including feelings of sadness or hopelessness, mood swings, crying jags, and loss of appetite.

If your partner talks to you about feeling overwhelmed, or expresses concern that she isn’t able to bond with the baby, that’s a serious warning sign. If your partner seems like she isn’t doing well, ask her how she’s feeling, and really sit and listen to what she says.

Asking is key, because a new mother might not be comfortable sharing any negative feelings on her own. She might be concerned about not appearing like a good enough mother.

Support makes a huge difference

Extreme exhaustion, isolation, and lack of support are all triggers for PPD. If you or your partner is seeing a therapist or taking meds, the two of you will most likely still need to make some changes at home.

If your partner is the one who’s struggling, find ways to lighten her load. If you’re the one who’s struggling, and your schedule makes it harder for you to take on more, don’t be afraid to ask for help. Enlist the help of friends or family members, even if it’s just to bring over a meal or help out with house chores.

It may take some time to be back to normal

If your partner’s struggle is visible, you most likely want to do everything you possibly can to help her feel better. But that could add even more stress to your relationship.

If your relationship is under a bit of strain, be patient and supportive. Ask your partner how you can be of help, but try not to get frustrated if she doesn’t know right away how you can be helpful. And when she does tell you, don’t second-guess her. Just do it.

You’re not an expert

If you suspect your partner might have symptoms of PPD, what you should have at the back of your mind is that it is a medical condition that requires professional medical attention. It’s not something you can solve on your own.

You are there to listen to your partner and to provide support, but you are not there to treat them. Only a licensed medical professional can do that.

Be there for each other.

It’s easy for new parents to fall into the trap of devoting all their energy to a new baby. It is best to avoid focusing on your little one to the extent that you end up neglecting your partner, or your own mental health. You should be there to help with the baby at all hours, but don’t forget to give your partner time too.

You might not have the time or energy to go out to dinner or give your partner a long massage. You can always find time to know where are emotions are swaying. Just say, ‘hey, how are you feeling’?” Epperson says. Your partner “is probably going to appreciate you asking alone.

11 ways to get anyone you love.

11 ways to get anyone you love.

You spend hours sitting in class staring at the guy you like. That won’t get you very far. It’s time to learn how to let a guy know you’re interested.

Sometimes guys can be so oblivious to the signs that it gets frustrating. Girls, you know what I’m talking about. But listen, maybe you’re just not showing the right signs. Learning how to let a guy know you’re interested in a way that they’ll understand and respect is key.

Drooling over them definitely shows you like them but probably won’t work out for you in the long run. I’m speaking from experience. Trust me on that. How to let a guy know you’re interested

No one said it was easy telling someone how you feel about them. You have no idea how many times I’ve told someone I liked them and was turned down. And, from each rejection, rather than deciding that I would never tell anyone I like them ever again, I kept going. What’s the big deal? You tell them you like them, they don’t like you and you move one.

It’s amazing how quickly people forget these things. But we put a lot of pressure on ourselves and this stops us from taking the next step forward and telling someone how we feel. It’s time, ladies. It’s time.

#1 Tell him. I’m a big advocate for expressing your feelings. Plus, this is the easiest way for someone to understand how you feel. If you tell him of your interest in him, there’s no way he misinterprets that. You like him, and you told him you like him. Now, he knows exactly how you feel so he either accepts it or not. 

#2 Be approachable. Sure, play the mysterious type, but why? It sounds exhausting and you wait for the guy to approach you. Yawn. Why not just open yourself and be more approachable. If you show a guy that you’re friendly and communicative, you show them that you’re interested in talking to them. Now, does this show you that you like them? Not necessarily, but it’s a good first step.

#3 Make the first move in a conversation. If you see him eating lunch alone or waiting in line for the elevator, be the first one to start a conversation. Usually, men assume they should be the one to make the first move in everything, but why not mix it up a bit? This shows him you’re interested in talking to him and allows him to make the first move the next time he sees you. Show him that you’re interested.

#4 Make eye contact. When we like someone, we stare at them. Well, why not look at them while they’re looking at you? Eye contact is one of the major signs we all follow when trying to see if someone is into us or not. If someone avoids eye contact with you, they’re not interested in you. However, if they stare at you while you look at them, it’s a clear sign that you are into each other. So, if you want him to know that you like him, look at him. 

#5 Smile. I know this may seem elementary, but you would never approach a guy who’s always frowning and looking angry. So, why would a guy assume you’re interested in him if you look like that? Exactly.

It’s time to put a smile on that face because he won’t know you’re interested in him if you don’t look at him and smile. But, of course, don’t force it. If you don’t feel like smiling, then don’t.

#6 Ask him out. Now, you may be freaking out at this point, but don’t. When it comes to figuring out how to let a guy know you’re interested in him, this is definitely a strong first move, but that doesn’t make it bad. Why not ask him out? This clearly shows him you’re interested in getting to know him more. So, he probably will be more relaxed knowing you like him. Well, the first date jitters will simply vanish. 

#7 Text him. I know people say that he needs to text you first and that you need to wait a couple hours to reply, blah blah blah. Listen, if you like him, just text him. Who cares about who texted who first. The point is, you’re interested in him, so he should know that. Send him a text and see if he replies. Who knows where it’ll lead you.

#8  Don’t act like a friend. You’re not friends. Let’s just make this very clear. You don’t even want to be his friend, you want something more, right? So, don’t act like his friend in order to somehow weasel yourself into the girlfriend or dating position. You need to make it obvious that you’re interested in him more than just a friend. That way, neither of you waste your time.

#9 Don’t play games. I know people love playing games. The whole “hot and cold” thing. Well, it’s boring. Frankly, if you’re genuinely interested in him then you should be honest with about how you feel. It’s easier for you in the long-run as well. Say what you want and mean what you say.

#10 Flirt. You most likely flirt with him naturally because you want to be intimate with him. Flirting is the first step to intimacy. You basically build up the sexual tension. This is a clear sign men go by when figuring out if someone likes them. They see if this person flirts with him. If not, they most likely are unsure of where your intentions lie.

#11 Be persistent. Now, this doesn’t mean you should stalk and harass him until he agrees to go out with you. But, be a little persistent with showing him how you feel. Don’t be hot one day and cold the next. If he takes you for ice cream, text him later telling him that you enjoyed it, or ask him to hang out with you again. Sometimes, you must put a little more effort in to show them that you like them.

Fidel James Biography.

Fidel James, popularly known as Fidel,is a Nigerian Artist, Dancer and Songwriter. He's the owner and founder of KizDel records.

He's from Akwa-Ibom.Hes born and brought up in Lagos.He presently lives in Magodo phase 2,Lagos.He's from a family of 6.He's a very gifted rapper with mind blowing rhythms and lines.He's first song is Ellae. It's an amazing hit song. Follow him on Instagram as Fidel915.please do well to follow him.He needs your supports.He's dance videos are out,you can watch them on Instagram as well as YouTube.


Genres of music in Africa.

There are distinctive occasions for each type of African music.The African Diaspora,west African music and the music of the colonies each had different musical instruments. The west African music was the music of the African people.This happened before the European captured and sold them into slavery in the Americans.The west African music was documented around the 1600's when explorers wrote journals about what they found and experience while traveling.
  The west Africans are Lovers of music that's why every west African village had it's own professional musicians,singers and instrumentalists to perform for a community.
They used idiophones to make music.They used things like small xylophone or small pianos and bells, castanets,gongs and sometimes flutes.
  The African music went wide and it result to various and different types of music such as;

Afro beat- This is created by Fela Kuti,by using fusing traditional Nigerian music,jazz and highlife.Today it is mixed with hip hop or makossa.
Apala- Apala is based on the style of Yoruba Muslims in Nigeria,West Africa.
Assiko- This is a rhythm dance from the Cameroon.
Bikutsi- This is a traditional music of Beti in Cameroon.
Banga music- It's a popular music in Kenya.They uses the electronic bass guitar.
Bongo Flava- it's a Tanzanian music style.
Cobo-love- From Cape Verde.
Chimurenga music-It is a popular style from the Zimbabwes.
Coladaira-From Cape Verde.
Coupé-Decalé-It is a pop music from the Ivory coast/France with danceable deep bass.
Desert  blues- Blues was first started in the Sahara desert by people who lived there before it got famous in the West.
Fuji- This is a popular music from Nigeria by the Yoruba Muslims.
Funana- It is from Cape Verde which is based on the accordeon.
Gbema- It's from Liberia.
Highlife- This is a genre from Ghana and popular in all of English speaking West Africa.
Hipco- It's from Liberia.
Hiplife-From Ghana. The mixture of highlife and hip pop.
Kizomba- Kizomba means party in an Angolan language.It is spreading in Europe and North America.
Kwaito- It's by the south Africans.
Kwasa-Kwasa- From Congo.
Makosea-From Cameroon.
Maringa- From Sierra Leone.
Mapouke- From Ivory coast.
Mbalax-It is Senegal must popular style.
Morna- From Cape Verde.
Ndombolo- From Congo.
Palm wine music-From Liberia.
Semba-From Angola.
Soukous- From Congo.
Taarab-From Kenya and Tanzania.
Trapco- From Liberia.

Although,those of some of the genre of music in Africa.They are still incomplete.Please use the comment box to tell us your best African music style.


10 interesting facts about Nigeria.

Nigeria is a country in West Africa having boundaries with Niger and the Chad Republic in the north, Cameroon on the eastern part, the Benin Republic on the western border and the Atlantic ocean at the southern end. Nigeria is the most populous country in Africa with more than 170 million people living there. What this means is that one in every 7 Africans is a Nigerian. Despite the insecurity and some slight political instabilities facing the country, there are some interesting facts about Nigeria that are worth noting. Answers Africa brings you the most interesting and fun Nigeria facts.
1.Largest diversity of butterfly.
2.Ogun state has the highest number of universities in Nigeria.
3.Nigeria is the most populous country in Africa.
4.One of the oldest location of human existence.
5.More than 250 Ethnic groups.
6.Christainity and Islam are the 2 major religions.
7.Niger River is the West African largest River.
8.Largest producers of crude oil.
9.The largest bridge in Africa.
10.Home of Hollywood.

Now you've known.